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The Essence of Autistic Joy
Autistic joy is a radiant, engulfing warmth that illuminates the experiences of many autistic individuals. It can be characterized by an overwhelming sense of happiness that resonates deeply within. It’s like feeling sparks travel through every part of your being, immersing you so entirely that the world around you melts away. In these moments you don’t immediately notice the odd looks and stares from others. This joy is not fleeting or superficial; it is profound, all-consuming, and vividly present. It is also quickly extinguished by the judgemental expressions and words of others.
When my son laughs, his entire body vibrates with happiness. His laughter isn’t just heard; it’s felt. It pulses through the room, touching everyone around him and lifting their spirits immeasurably. Witnessing his unbridled joy as he anticipates celebrating another year of life is not just a moment of happiness for him—it heals me. Especially when taking into
consideration how hard this first year of middle school has been.
Anticipation of his joy is what keeps me sane these days. It mends the memories of the little girl within me who was shamed for her loud, boisterous laughter and taught to quell her excitement. His joy reaffirms that the true beauty in autistic joy should never be masked.
Society and Autistic Joy
Tragically, the expression of autistic joy often collides with misunderstanding and neurotypical judgment. The phrases ‘You’re too much,’ ‘Calm down,’ or ‘You are embarrassing’ are all too familiar, each carrying a painful sting. These reactions force autistic individuals to suppress our natural responses, concealing the very essence of our joy.
But unmasked autistic joy, while sometimes overwhelming, is not something to be disciplined. It’s a testament to the authentic experience of joy that many autistic people, including my son, embody. It is an emotion so rarely seen in our modern world with the constant wars, depressing news, and unending negativity in media today.
“Autistic people are not failed versions of ‘normal.’ They’re different, not less, and their joy can be as infectious as their challenges are daunting.”
Steve Silberman – Author of NeuroTribes: The Legacy of Autism and the Future of Neurodiversity
As a family, we’ve committed ourselves to challenging societal norms and advocating for the acceptance and appreciation of this unfiltered happiness. It is, indeed, a wondrous moment to behold when one realizes that one’s joy does not need to fit within the confines of societal acceptance.
Autistic Joy in Everyday Life
As the birthday of my son approaches, I find myself reflecting on past celebrations, each a vivid display of pure joy. Whether it’s his exuberant jumps or the enthusiastic stimming, each action is a profound expression of his inner world. These celebrations are not just parties or excursions; they are affirmations of his right to feel and express joy in ways that are true to him.
We prepare for his birthday, knowing that it will be filled with moments where he is utterly absorbed in happiness. From blowing out the candles with gusto to the excitement of unwrapping gifts, each act is a burst of joy that deserves recognition and space to flourish. No matter what the general public thinks, neurodivergent people have just as much right to take up space and make noise as anyone else.
Cultivating a Supportive Environment
Creating an environment where autistic joy can thrive involves understanding and acceptance. It means building communities where expressions of joy are not only accepted but celebrated. It involves educating others, advocating for change, and, most importantly, practicing kindness and empathy within our own homes and communities.
For autistics and their families and/or caregivers, remember these affirmations:
- Your autistic joy is a beautiful, integral part of who you are.
- You are never “too much.”
- Your happiness is infectious and valuable.
- The things that bring you joy are important, no matter how small they may seem to others.
- You have just as much right to take up space and make noise as anyone else.
- Your existence is necessary to make this world whole.
Conclusion
Autistic joy is a beautiful, intense, and essential aspect of the autistic experience. It is a pure form of happiness that, when embraced, can offer profound insights into the value of being present and genuine. As my son’s birthday draws near, I am reminded of the importance of celebrating these moments of pure joy—unmasked and unfettered by societal expectations. This is the true beauty of autistic joy, and it is something we should all aspire to embrace and protect.
As we move forward, let’s continue to advocate for spaces where autistic joy can be expressed freely and without judgment. It’s not just about accepting neurodiversity but celebrating it in all its vibrant forms. Let us all find joy in our authenticity and that of our loved ones and the unique ways they experience happiness. This isn’t just a personal journey—it’s a communal one that enriches us all.
What are your favorite moments of Autistic Joy?
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